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Stop and Smell the Roses Blog Bouquet

Posted by lesmora at 12:58 AM on June 29, 2009

The flower for June is the rose, so it seems only fitting that The Wild Rose Press hosts a Roses Blog. You can have any color of rose you want nowadays - use floral paint and you can get green roses for St. Patrick's Day, blue roses for the blue in your 4th of July bouquet and orange for Halloween or Thanksgiving. The natural color of roses are red, pink, white, yellow and the newest color, a pink rose that fades to white, called a Latin Lady, as my friend, the rose connoisseur, tells me it is called.

 

New things are hard to accept. Who wants blue roses? Really! However, sometimes, change is good. Sometimes. Change is essential. Sometimes, something happens in your life and you just CANNOT remain the SAME. So, you have to CHANGE. Somehow. Because... how... can... you... remain... the same...?

 

This past weekend I went to West Texas to visit my dad and my sister, who lives with him and takes care of him. I bought a pair of shades. Now, I've never been one to call attention to myself, but this past Saturday, I had to buy shades because I'd forgotten mine at home. I bought this pair.

 

 

Yes, they're blue, like the blue roses. Now, I saw some conservative-looking shades in browns and blacks, but somehow? the blue called to me. Actually, there were some pink shades that were shouting out to me a little bit louder, but I ignored them. What would my son have said? As it was, he called my spanking new blue shades, "those preposterous shades you're wearing". What does he know?

 

On my home page, you can see me in a straw hat, well here's me in my newest straw hat - and my BLUE shades.

 

 

So, what am I trying to say with all this "preposterousness"? Sometimes, you have to change. You have to change even what you write. You may like to write about heroines who have lived a little, have experienced life, but all of a sudden, you feel you'd like to try to write a historical - during the Mexican Revolution - Pancho Villa's time. Why not? Well, yes, you have to do the research, but what writer doesn't like to "do the research"? Or, you may want to write a time travel, set in 1955.

 

I did just that in my upcoming short story, A LOVE FOR ETERNITY. At the beginning my heroine is 70 years old. She travels back to 1955 to change her destiny where she is 18 again.

 

Blurb:

At eighteen, Christina Ramos meets the love of her life, yet she allows her mother to talk her into marrying someone else. Widowed fifty years later, Christina finds herself transported back to 1955 to that magical day she first meets Joe Morado.

Second chances don't happen very often, and this time she vows to stay with the man of her dreams forever. No matter what.

 

Because a love that transcends time is A Love for Eternity

 

What has caused you to make changes in your writing and/ or reading?

 

Whoever makes a comment their name will be put in a drawing and the winner will win a pdf copy of my first book, TOO LATE FOR ROMANCE? which features a heroine who has lived a little yet has never managed to grow anything and who is content with her life the way it is until she meets Matt Cerda in her wilting rose garden.

 

Please go visit these authors and check their blogs, smell the roses and possibly win a prize tomorrow, June 30:

 

Amber Leigh Williams

http://www.amberleighwilliams.blogspot.com/

http://authorsstudio.blogspot.com

Betty Hanawa

http://www.bettyhanawa.blogspot.com/

Christine Clemetson

http://christineclemetson.blogspot.com

http://findagreatromance.blogspot.com

Teri Wilson

http://freewebs.com/teriwilson/apps/blog/

Rebecca Savage

http://grgiall.blogspot.com

Hywela Lyn

http://hywelalyn.blogspot.com

Jenn Francesca

http://jennfrancesca.blogspot.com

Joyce Moore

http://joycemoore.blogspot.com

Liana Laverentz

http://lianalaverentz.blogspot.com

Linda Hope Lee

http://LindaHopeLee.blogspot.com

Laurie J. Edwards

http://lje1.wordpress.com

Dawn Wilson

http://noveltrails.blogspot.com

Susan Vaughan

http://plotsandthoughts.blogspot.com

Tanya Hanson

http://tanyahanson.blogspot.com

Tina Gayle

http://tinagayle.blogspot.com

Laura Hogg

http://traveltheages.blogspot.com

Bess McBride

http://willtravelforromance.blogspot.com

 

 

 

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24 Comments

Reply Skhye
07:28 AM on June 29, 2009
Hey, I once bought a light pink pair of sunglasses just like these but they had silver tiger stripes. I was an ADULT. And I didn't care what anyone thought. LOL. I hate the current sunglass fashions. So, I just wear an old scratched pair I've had... I am human. I've studied 80 hours of anthropology. And I can attest to the fact humans hate change (of which forces them out of the rules/boundaries they're comfortable with). Anyway, what has changed my writing? I've read about 80 books on technique and paid for high-dollar conferences. But I think fear has forced my adaptation. I feared never getting published. That said, most people will post an detailed example here, but all change is founded in fear. smile I experienced tremendous relief when I'd read a book on a subject and a lightbulb would go off... Or sitting in a lecture, someone would say something that one way... And my fear would turn into an adrenaline rush. So, there you have my clinical assessment. LOL. Have a wonderful week!
Reply Tricia Schneider
09:07 AM on June 29, 2009
Change happens whether we want it (or are ready for it!) or not and it effects us in so many ways. My writing changes as I grow as a person and as I learn new things and am inspired by them. All through my life, I've used writing as therapy for the changes in my life and alot of those things are reflected in the stories I write today.
Reply Caridad Pineiro
10:26 AM on June 29, 2009
Congrats on the new release. I love time travels and will definitely check it out.
Reply Teri Wilson
10:52 AM on June 29, 2009
Lupe, WOW. I adore your new shades. Not only are they blue, but it appears as though they're also sparkly. You go girlfriend! I can't wait to read your new release. Congrats Bruja!

Blessings, Teri

Teri Wilson ~ Romancing the pet lover's soul

www.teriwilson.net
Reply Beckie Ugolini
10:56 AM on June 29, 2009
Girl, you look all of 17 years old in those shades. Change takes courage, and that's something I know you have plenty of.
Reply L M Gonzalez
11:40 AM on June 29, 2009
Thanks for the "clinical assessment" for change, Skhye. LOL Fear does play a large part in not wanting to change, I agree.
Reply L M Gonzalez
11:41 AM on June 29, 2009
Tricia,
I too have changed the way and what I write through the years, depending on what was going on in my life at the time. Writing is definitely therapeutic.
Reply L M Gonzalez
11:48 AM on June 29, 2009
Hi Teri and fellow Bruja,

Yes, my shades have a bit of sparkle. I enjoyed wearing them this weekend. Though coming back from West Texas, I did get a second surprised look from a lady. Maybe she thought I was a movie star! LOL
Reply L M Gonzalez
11:49 AM on June 29, 2009
Thanks, Beckie!! 17 years old?! Ummm.... Have to think about that one. LOL Thanks for stopping by.
Reply Tanya Hanson
01:17 PM on June 29, 2009
SMells good around here! I also enjoy time travels so looks to be a TBR addition!

Best,
Tanya Hanson
www.tanyahanson.com
Reply Karen H in NC
01:53 PM on June 29, 2009
You are a new-to-me author and I love the sound of your work. I'll be looking into getting a copy of 'A Love for Eternity'. I love Time Travels. Love the shades too, BTW!
Reply Marianne Evans
02:13 PM on June 29, 2009
Great shades, lady! The mini-rose looks aweseome as well. Great concept!!!!! Thanks for a fun blog!
Reply Rhonda Penders
02:33 PM on June 29, 2009
Thanks for participating in our blog bouquet. Looking forward to seeing you again next year!

Rhonda
Reply loretta canton
02:37 PM on June 29, 2009
A little bit of a change can make a big different. It can get you out of a rut.
Reply Lauri
02:45 PM on June 29, 2009
I love your new glasses! I just bought a white pair with black and white 'racing flags' on them. Congrats on your new book. I love time travels!
Reply Wendi Zwaduk
02:54 PM on June 29, 2009
I love hte gaudy sunglasses that only look good on the movie stars.

Change? Well, I like to slide along on the ice, but when i have to adapt,I think I'm pretty good at it, but if you ask a couple of friends, they'll tell you I'm stubborn. HA!

Great blog.

Take it easy.

Wendi
Reply Jennette Green
04:44 PM on June 29, 2009
Sounds like a great book! smile
Reply Teresa
07:11 PM on June 29, 2009
I'm often torn..., I LOVE change when it comes to changing the furniture in my home, changing cars every so often, and changing my clothes, bags, shoes, etc. BUT I HATE to change my daily routine, my spending habits, and my favorite food. Funny, huh?!?!
Reply Christine Clemetson
07:51 PM on June 29, 2009
I love the shades! And I adore the sparkles..I used to have a white pair the same shape, but they were blah compared to yours. smile))))
Reply Helen Pilz
08:27 PM on June 29, 2009
Blue is good. Change can be good.
I love time travels. Looking forward to reading your new book.